THE SPEAKMAN'S - VISUAL CODING DISPLACEMENT THERAPY

THE SPEAKMAN'S - VISUAL CODING DISPLACEMENT THERAPY PRACITIONER
CERTIFICATION TRAINING & SPEAKMAN STYLE NLP PSYCHOLOGICAL CHANGE WORK
MASTERCLASS.

I'm putting this up for my friends Nik & Eva Speakman, and Alex Smith

Saturday 15th & Sunday 16th November - 2008 (10am to 6pm)

At: The Manchester Tennis & Racquet Club,
33 Blackfriars Road, Salford, Manchester, England, M3 7AQ

BOOK NOW: Just £497 via http://www.paypal.com to bookings@robertphipps.com

Yes Indeed, I am delighted to announce that after the huge success of
their Amazing One Day Training event earlier this year, I have now
managed to persuade Nik and Eva Speakman (http://www.nikandeva.com)
the stars of UKTV Styles "A Life Coach Less Ordinary" to run a one
off Two Day Masterclass Training event for fellow therapists.

This event which will be strictly limited to a Maximum of 30
Delegates will run from 10am until 6pm on Saturday 15th & Sunday 16th
November 2008 at the beautiful Manchester Tennis & Racquet Club,
whose members past and present have included Members of Royalty,
Politicians, Judges and high Profile Celebrities.

During these amazing Two days, many of those who attend will have the
chance of Personal Treatment with Nik and Eva to permanently CURE
their Fears & Phobia's, to overcome their emotional problems and
mental blocks or indeed to elminate addictions from their life.

When you consider that Nik & Eva usually charge at least £1,000
($2,000) for such treatment and are booked up 12 to 18 months in
advance with Celebrity Clients, you will realise just how valauable
this once in your lifetime opportunity is!

Please don't take my word for it, take a look at Nik and Eva in
Action treating people (inlcuding many famous names) here:
http://www.youtube.com/user/nikandevaspeakman

And see what the National Media say about them here at this link:
http://www.nikandeva.com/speakmans_press.htm

By the end of this intensive two day training event you will have
learnt and become a Certified Practitioner in The Speakmans Unique
Visual Coding Displacement Therapy (VCDT) for which a Patent has been
applied for and is pending, and which can be used to cure most any
Fear, Phobia, Addiction or indeed practically any problem from A thru
to Z in just a few short minutes!

You will by attending this two day event become one of the first 30
Licensed Certified & registered Practitioners of Visual Coding
Displacement Therapy and as such will have a head start on your
competitiors in the business!

During the weekend you will also learn numerous other unqiue
approaches and The Speakmans adaptations and improvements upon
conventional NLP techniques covering such areas as:

*The Speakmans Powerful Approach to Weight Loss & Management

*The Speakman Habit & Addiction Elimination Approaches

*The Fast Phobia Cure - The Speakman way!

*How To successfully treat any problem you are ever presented with
from A thru to Z in the fastest space of time possible and with
permanent long lasting results.

*Goal Setting and Making Your Dreams Come True - The Speakamsn reveal
their proven methods to create the lifestyle you desire become
reality in all areas of your life as well as becoming a far more
confident, competent and profitable Mind Therapist!

*How to prepare for a successful treatment session, the importance of
your client questionairre and many other jealously guarded secrets
which until now Nik & Eva have never revealed before and which are
largely responsible for their massive success in this industry.

Even if you have read their best selling book "Your Life Can Be
Fantastic Too" http://www.nikandeva.com/products.htm then their is
still mountains of secrets and unique treatment approaches for you to
learn at this amazing two day event...

Indeed become a Legally Licensed, registered and Certified Visual
Coding Displacement Therapist (Patent Pending) is worth many times
the cost of attending this weekend alone!

And when you realise that you will also walk away with a FREE COPY of
The Speakmans Audio CD (Worth £39-95) -
http://www.nikandeva.com/products.htm

And also on both days YOUR HOT RESTAURANT DINNER is also provided
FREE (several menu choices will be given upon booking your ticket) in
the beautiful dining area usually frequented by Royalty, Politiicans,
Judges, Celebrities and other high profile people which alone saves
you a fortune also!

All of this and some other amazing Suprises and FREE GIFTS which you
will recieve at the event make this the intelligent choice of course
to book now.

Nearer the time tickets will be available for £497 each (Certifcation
in Visual Coding Displacement Therapy) would usually cost more than
this alone and comes to you FREE as part of this package!

SPECIAL OFFER WHEN YOU BOOK NOW = However Secure Your Ticket now and
you will pay LESS THAN HALF PRICE by sending just £497 to us today
via http://www.paypal.com to the email of pr@thespeakmans.co.uk

Yes thats right you can secure yor place now for just £497 to
bookings@robertphipps.com and get all of the FREE Bonus Items, including
an amazing Audio CD (Worth £39-95) - Legally Licensed & Registered
Practitioner Certification in Visual Coding Dusplacement Therapy
(Worth over £497) and an extra invaluable FREE GIFT which will only
be revealed over the weekend at the event to those who attend!

You get all of this together with all your Teas & Coffess at break
time, along with a Hot Dinner in the restaurant at lunch time along
with a tasty dessert all included in the Special Offer price of just
£247 which you need to send now to bookings@robertphipps.com

The venue is literally 5 to 10 mins walk from The Kendals Deaprtment
Store on Deansgate in Manchester and easily reached by Main
Manchester Train Stations such as Piccadilly and Victoria, whilst
also being easy to find from Manchester International Airport.

There are many hotels within a short walking distance of the venue
such as Premier Inn - http://www.premierinn.com/ - Travel Lodges-
http://www.travelodge.co.uk and The Ramada Hotel amongst many others -
http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&q=%22hotels%22+manchester&meta=

FREE PARKING = Free Parking is available on the venue car park during
the day from 9am each day, and by arrangement and prior notice your
car can also be left overnight from Friday evening until Sunday when
the event ends (so long as you arrive before 6pm on Friday)

So whatare you waitng for secure your ticket now by sending £497 to
bookings@robertphipps.com

WARNING = Strictly Limited to a Maximum of 30 Delegates!

Many Thanks

Dr. Alex (Jonathan Royle) Smith
http://www.selfgrowth.com/experts/jonathan_royle.html

PS: Please Pass this on to every Therapist and person you feel may
beenefit from attending this event.

PPS: The reason we are able to make this Special Offer, is because by
booking to attend this event you agree to be filmed and be seen on
screen ad this event is professionally being filmedfor future
worldwide release. (However please note when released to obtain the
DVDS will cost FAR MORE than attending now in person - so sceure your
ticket now by sending £497 to bookings@robertphipps.com)

Body Language DVDs Achieve # 1 spot on Amazon.

Body Language DVDs Achieve # 1 spot on Amazon.

Yes my 10 DVD set, Body Language - Secrets of Master Communicators, has achieved the number one spot on Amazon UK in less than 21 days from launch.

If you go searching on Amazon.co.uk for body language, then my DVDs now come up in the top spot for DVDs, that's competing against 86 other products !!!

I'm absolutely thrilled at this major achievement in such a short space of time, when I first launched they were listed 84 of 87 products and in only three weeks they are at number one.

http://www.amazon.co.uk/s/ref=nb_ss_w_h_/202-8205233-3295834?url=search-alias%3Ddvd&field-keywords=body+language&x=12&y=22

That's just the DVD section, if you search body language you'll be offered more than 2,100 options and again my DVDs are ranked at 14, which is absolutely amazing I'm sure you'll agree.

http://www.amazon.co.uk/s/ref=nb_ss_w_h_/203-9657047-4145527?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=body+language&x=0&y=0

As a special celebration I'm going to offer an "Amazon Achievement Discount" to anyone who to buy a set now.

Instead of paying £79.95 on Amazon, you can buy them for £69 including FREE postage anywhere in the world. 

But only if you pay the money direct to me through my Paypal account, otherwise Amazon takes fees. You can send money to me via Paypal address: robert@smartraining.com

That's all for now,

Robert

Sleep Well, Sleep Sound,

Hello Everyone,

If you're like most people with sleep problems, your mind is simply overloaded with tension and strain by the time your head hits the pillow. 

You lie there trying to relax, yet you play the day's events over and over in your mind. You dwell on money problems. Kid problems. Marriage and relationship problems. You can't shut off your brain and get to sleep, no matter how hard you try ... and the frustration mounts up.

But imagine if you could release the weight of the world at bedtime. Automatically, too, so you don't even give it a thought. And without taking a single pill, either.

Well, that day is finally here... And I don't want you to miss out.
 
Today, my friend Mike Brescia of Think Right Now International has gathered together over 100 leading authors and experts to show you breathtaking new ways to ease your stress, calm your mind, enjoy greater success - including the one, best way to get the blissful night's sleep you deserve, night after night. 

Go here now to find out what's going on - Click Here

Mike and the research team at Think Right Now have just released a remarkable new program called "Tranquil Sleep Now." But this isn't just another self-help book or tape. It's so important - life-changing, really -- that over 100 other health and self-improvement experts
are helping them spread the word. 

You see, "Tranquil Sleep Now" does what no other sleep aid in the world can do: It corrects the root causes of your sleeplessness, instead of just knocking you out with brain-altering substances like drugs and herbal supplements do. 

This program has only been out a few weeks, yet Mike has already received testimonials from dozens of people whose sleep problems disappeared the very first night. 

That's right; lifetime insomnia gone -- just like that. It's THAT powerful.

Go here to learn what the fuss is about -- and get access to over 100 free bonus gifts -

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By the way, "Tranquil Sleep Now" is NOT hypnosis or one of those "sounds of nature" tapes. Instead, it combines two proven mental conditioning techniques in a unique audio format that has a remarkable track record for success.

It breaks the chains of troubled sleep naturally by targeting and transforming the self-defeating thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that loom in your mind when you go to bed.

So if you're sick and tired of waking up feeling like you've been through an ultimate fighting match, "Tranquil Sleep Now" guarantees a full night's sleep every night.  

No drugs. No herbs. No time investment. No ongoing costs.

You'll love it.

This program is like an audio knockout pill that trains your mind to shut down on command so that you can fall asleep anytime you want anywhere you want without any strain or effort.

Please take advantage of this now before this special is over.

Check it out here - and claim your 100 free bonus gifts, too - Click Here

To the best night's sleep of your life every night, 

Robert Phipps 

SELF IMPROVEMENT AND SUCCESS

SELF IMPROVEMENT AND SUCCESS

Everything that happens to us happens in purpose and sometimes, one thing leads to another. Instead of locking yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self improvement and success.

I remember watching Patch Adams – It's one great film that will help you improve yourself.

Hunter “patch” Adams is a medical student who failed to make it through the board exams. After months of suffering in melancholy, depression and suicidal attempts – he decided to seek for medical attention and voluntarily admitted himself in a psychiatric ward.  

His months of stay in the hospital led him to meeting different kinds of people. Sick people in that matter. He met a catatonic, a mentally retarded, a schizophrenic and so on. Patch found ways of treating his own ailment and finally realized he has to get back on track.

He woke up one morning realizing that after all the failure and pains he has gone through, he still want to become the a doctor. He carries with himself a positive attitude that brought him self improvement and success. He didn’t only improve himself, but also the life of the people around him and their quality of life. Did he succeed? Needless to say, he became the best damn doctor his country has ever known.

So, when does self improvement become synonymous with success? Where do you start? 

*Stop thinking and feeling as if you’re a failure, because you’re not. How can others accept you if YOU can’t accept YOURSELF?

*When you see hunks and models on TV, think more on self improvement, not self pitying. Self acceptance is not just about having nice slender legs, or great abs and good looks concentrate on your inner beauty and strength.

*When people feel so down and low about themselves, help them move up. Don’t go down with them, they’ll pull you down further and both of you will end up feeling less than you are.

*The world is a large room for lessons, not mistakes. Don’t feel stupid and doomed forever just because you failed at something. There’s always a next time make a room for self improvement.

*Take things one at a time. You don’t expect a black sheep to be goody-two-shoes in just a snap of a finger. Self improvement is a one day at a time process, sometimes one hour, one minute.

*Self improvement results to inner stability, personality development and dig this …. SUCCESS. It comes from self confidence, self appreciation and self esteem.

* Set meaningful and achievable goals. Self improvement doesn’t turn you to be the exact replica of Cameron Diaz or Ralph Fiennes. It hopes and aims to result to an improved and better YOU.

*Little things mean BIG to other people. Sometimes, we don’t realise that the little things that we do like a pat on the back, saying “hi” or “hello”, greeting someone “good day” or telling Mr. Smith something like “hey, I love your tie!” are simple things that mean so much to other people. When we’re being appreciative about beautiful things around us and other people, we also become beautiful to them.

*When you’re willing to accept change and go through the process of self improvement, it doesn’t mean that everyone else is. The world is a place where people of different values and attitudes hang out.  

Always remember that there’s no such thing as ‘over night success’. Its always a wonderful feeling to hold on to the things that you already have now, realising that those are just one of the things you once wished for.

A very nice quote says that “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” We are all here to learn our lessons. Our parents, school teachers, friends, colleagues, officemates, neighbours… they are our teachers. When we open our doors for self improvement, we increase our chances to head to the road of success.

Here's a piece of software to install onyour computer to keep you motivated without you even realising it. Click Here

Body Language Facts and Statistics

Have you ever wondered just how many ways us human beings communicate? If so here’s a few facts and statistics about non verbal communication – Body Language.

Mario Pei, estimated humans produce up to 700,000 different signs.

Ray Birdwhistell, estimates the face is capable of over 250,000 expressions.

M H Krout, identified 5,000 distinct hand gestures.

G W Hughes has catalogued 1,000 different postures and their accompanying gestures. According to Wharton University studies, human beings take in information about the world around us through our five senses (actually we have many more than just five that everyone thinks but that’s another article) 

Eyes 82% 

Ears 11% 

Other senses 7%

Retention Verbal 10%

Retention Verbal – Visual 51%

Albert H Mehrabian experimented in the late 60’s and early 70’s and came up with this calculation in terms of how important the non verbal movements, signals and gestures are when it comes to the overall effectiveness of our communication in relaying our message to others.


Words account for only 7%

Tone of voice accounts for 38%

Body language accounts for 55%


Although in fairness, it’s not an absolutely reliable way of calculating such figures, as this study was conducted for a telecoms company over the telephone. Therefore, the person on the other end could hear the words and the tone of voice but lacked the visual input of the body language.


What are the uses of body language?

There’s predominantly three ways in which we use body language signals, movements and gestures and they are:

As a direct replacement for words – sign language is a prime example.

As a reinforcement of our words – we gesture to emphasize speech.

As a mirror of our inner emotions and attitudes – people read our faces, body angles, distance etc.

Cultural differences in body language are infinite and change all the time, especially now with worldwide movies, the internet, exotic holidays etc.

We now see more of other cultures than ever before so it makes sense that the same gestures can have several different meanings and out of all our 700,000 different signals there are said to only be six that are universal.

Happiness
Sadness
Surprise
Disgust
Anger
Fear

I’ll add to this when I get some more time.

Robert

Body Language And Being A Parent.

Being a parent is not an easy job at the best of times. While we all want to do the best for our children, we sometimes inadvertantly allow the pressures and frustrations of everyday life to show themselves when we talk with our children.

Children are incredibly perceptive to our moods and behaviour. Why ? Because they have to be, we teach them almost everything they know in the first few years of life so they pick up on these things without really having to try very hard at all.

If we're lucky, we get to spend a lot of time with our offspring in those early formative years and how we talk, move and gesture to them signals our inner feelings, unless you're already very good and practiced in making that instant change from work mode to parent mode.

How often have you been talking with your spouse, partner or another adult about your really hard day at the office, factory, shop, etc. All of a sudden in burst the kids with their Barbie dolls, Action Man or some other toy, babbling on about what they've just done with it. You, still in work mode, wag the finger at them saying something along the lines of "Can't you see I'm talking, don't interupt" sound familiar ?

Of course it does, the words might not be exactly what you'd say but I can bet that at sometime in your life you've reacted something like this to your child. You don't have to be shouting at your child to give them the indication with your body language alone, that you are not in the best of moods or that this is not the best time to get the full attention of their parent and it would be best if they went away till you are in the right frame of mind to talk and play with them.

Why? Because they pick up on the non verbal cues we all give off. It sounds very obvious and it is but how many times do we do things like this when interacting with our little loved ones. The answer for most parents unfortunately is a lot more than we should because we've not been able to immediately switch from one state of mind to another.

As children grow up with us as their mentors, they learn about the subconscious body language way before they learn the spoken language. They also learn about emotions we are expressing towards them through the tone of voice we use when speaking to them.

Can you imagine trying to koo koo a baby with an angry voice ? How do you think the child would react to these gruff and loud noises coming out of your mouth ? It just wouldn't work would it.

Because from the moment a new born baby enters this world, the influencial adults, especially the parents, talk in soft quiet tones along with gentle, soft movements. So the child learns almost immediately these people are nice, comforting and non threatening.

In fact children are born with only two fears; the fear of falling and loud noises, everything else we or others teach them. This includes how to express themselves both positively and negatively.

If you don't belive this, watch your children and see just how many of your gestures, expressions and movements they mimmick without even trying, you'll be surprised. How many times have you said "You're just like your father/mother."

So when you are talking with your child try not to tower over them and talk down at them with the wagging finger or with your arms crossed in front of your chest. Try instead to sit side by side or with your child on your lap or crouch down to their level.

Talk where possible in softer tones with your palms facing upwards and outwards. This is an open, honest and non threatening hand gesture we all use when we're being open and honest with people, you can't stop yourself in everyday conversation without sitting on your hands or putting them in your pockets or under your armpits, even then the desire has to be supressed.

Show them you are on concentrating solely on them by looking them in the eye, not at the TV, newspaper etc. Because although you may well be able to multi task different jobs, your child will perceive it as non interest and you won't get your point across in the most effective way.

We as adults spend our lives living with both the negative and positive affects of our parents, siblings and the other significant people in our lives. So make sure you pass on as many positive things to your children as you can and just taking a second or two to reflect on how best to handle your children in everyday situations.

There is nothing on this earth as precious as a child, they are priceless, each one is totally unique and our future lies in their hands.

Remember, one day they'll choose your nursing home !!!

What do you really want in life?

How To Determine What You Want In Life

Most people don’t discover what they want in life until it’s time to late – and that’s a shame.

Most people spend the best years of their lives watching television or doing things they dislike. An author described humanity by saying, “Most people die at twenty and are buried at eighty.” Are you one of the living zombies?

What do you really want in life?

Some people struggle in answering such question. When asked what they want or what their goals in life are, many are unsure. They dillydally in their decision, hardly giving any thought about what they want in life. People without definite goals are letting time pass them by. Are you one of these people?

If you are undecided about what you want out of life, do not worry there are many ways of discovering your purpose in life.

To discover what you want in life, try looking deep into your heart.

Often, people are ruled by logic and live by what they think they should be or by what others like them to be. The discovery process is the perfect time to listen to your heart. What your heart desires comes from the whispers of your authentic self. Your authentic self is the real you.

Listen to your heart to be able to listen to your authentic self. What your heart says usually feels right. What your heart desires is what you usually love to do and this represents your passion. Anything done with passion is like play where the task is accomplished with ease and without hesitation. You pour out your very best and feel no pressure or resistance.

You will totally enjoy doing things that are your passion. Setbacks, difficulties, and obstacles will make it more challenging, but should not deter you from pursuing your goals.

Naturally, there may be barriers that may prevent you from reaching your goal, but your heart’s desire will find ways to overcome these barriers so that you may ultimately get what you want in life.

Remember this: the universe supports people who are pursuing their passion and those who are pursuing their destiny.

However, this does not mean that you don’t use your head. People are born with both the mind and heart. Your duty is to live your best life and be in harmony with your mind and heart.

The poet Rumi wisely said, “Live completely in the head and you cannot feel the breath and rhythm of life. Live completely in the heart and you may find yourself acting like a love-struck fool with poor judgment and discipline. It’s all a fine balance - the head and heart must forge a lifetime partnership if one wants to live a beautiful life.”

Listen to your instinct.

Part of human nature is the mysterious and spontaneous reaction on things. Often times, these are called instincts. Your authentic self communicates with you and guides you via instincts. Instincts are those gentle nudges that urge you to act and follow a certain path. Your role then is to listen attentively.

Often times, we listen to what others say and allow them to run our lives. Parents often do this to their children.

“We come from a family of doctors, lawyers, builders, so my son/daughter is going to be one too"

How often do we hear this from parents who have good intentions for their children? Parents unconsciously block the true expression of their child’s real self and calling. Friends and critics will discourage you and point out the impossibility of your dream. Before heeding their advice, evaluate the accomplishments of the critics. Did they achieve theirs dreams? Do they dream big at all?

Remember, it is your destiny that is in line, not theirs. It doesn’t mean, though, that you will not listen to what other people say. Hear them out just the same. But the final decision should be yours.

There is only thing to remember: Every person, to live truly and greatly, must define how he wants to live and what his brightest life will look like. Listen to your instincts and follow your heart’s desire and you won’t go far wrong.

Brian Tracy has several fantastic programmes on Goal Setting - Achieving Work-Life Balance and Strategic Achievement plus numerous others.

Check out http://www.briantracy.co.uk

Have a great day,
Robert